Jessica Alba flet për zakonin e saj të tmerrshëm si prind

Aktorja amerikane, Jessica Alba në një intervistë për revistën “Instyle” është ndalur ndër të tjera edhe për faktin e të qënit prind. Si një nënë e tre fëmijëve, Jessica e di se cilat janë rregullat më të rëndësishme, por ndonjëherë ndodh që edhe ajo të bëj lëshime.

Kur është fjala për fëmijët, Jess tha se është shumë i rëndësishëm edukimi i tyre dhe të përgatiten për jetën.

“Unë e kam një zakon të tmerrshëm. Sa herë që fëmijët kanë një problem për të gjetur diçka, ata më pyesin: ‘Mami, ku është çanta e shpinës, furça e dhëmbëve, çdo gjë.’ Unë gjithmonë iu përgjigjem duke iu thënë “Ngrini prapanicën tuaj dhe kërkojini”. Mendoj se kjo është një shprehi e keqe prindërore”, tha ajo.

Aktorja më pas ka zbuluar se po përpiqet të gjejë një ekuilibër midis punës dhe familjes, sidomos kur bëhet fjalë për djalin e saj, i cili është vetëm pesë muajsh.

Motherhood: it’s a doozy, isn’t it? Your world gets turned completely upside down. Everything you thought you knew about what was important is no longer. And all the things you once took for granted — like sleep, and sitting down to eat an actual meal — become the greatest luxuries. Little people change you. To love and need someone that much and have them love and need you just as much…it’s the best and hardest and most heartbreaking thing there is. I still can’t believe it, but my oldest baby is almost 10 years old. And you know what? She doesn’t need me in the same ways she once did. There goes that heartbreak again…but it’s true. The time we have with our little ones when they’re actually little is so fleeting. And it’s a reminder for me to be present and cherish every messy moment. Every tantrum, every tired cry, every bit of these days that sometimes feel like they’ll never end. Because the truth is, they will. As a first-time mother, I was still learning about this person I had become. And I felt like everything had to be just perfect. But these days, I’m ok if my baby cries a little bit…because I know he’ll be ok. And so what if the dishes pile up in the sink…and if my living room looks nothing like the Instagram post five seconds after I take the picture. It’s all ok. This Mother’s Day (and really, every day), I want to thank you for trusting us @honest to be a part of your journey. And I want to let you know that even if it doesn’t always feel like it, you’ve got this. It’s not gonna be perfect. But you’re an amazing mama. And that’s everything. xo. 😘❤️✨

Un post condiviso da Jessica Alba (@jessicaalba) in data: Mag 12, 2018 at 12:10 PDT

#mothersday brunch w my 3 babies -heart is full! 💗#momof3

Un post condiviso da Jessica Alba (@jessicaalba) in data: Mag 13, 2018 at 3:28 PDT

That’s the tired happy face of us checking the progress of our new abode -after a night out w our friend #davechappelle -only he can get us out until 2am.

Un post condiviso da Jessica Alba (@jessicaalba) in data: Feb 19, 2018 at 4:16 PST